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My dh doesn't want a threesome

Anonymous
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I asked dh if he wanted to have a threesome to spice things up something different.

He said no. I don't know what to do to spice things up. I don't understand why he said no that's a turn on for most guys. I've brought it up several times I'm still getting turned down. He said he didn't want to have sex with anyone else. I told him he could do other stuff not vaginal sex with her he said it would make him feel bad for me to do stuff with another woman he doesn't want us sharing.

I feel like he's lying or something because it's the biggest fantasy for men it seems.

I don't know what to do to spice stuff up.

He doesn't want to try anal, he thinks it's disgusting. I already give him oral, I hate being tied up because my claustrophobic feelings kick in I feel trapped or something hard to describe.

What other suggestions would you give? Should I drop asking him about threesomes or surprise him with one
Posted by Anonymous on Oct. 4, 2013 at 3:10 PM
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Anonymous
by Anonymous - Original Poster on Oct. 4, 2013 at 3:18 PM
Anyone ? Need advice
mcginnisc
by Platinum Member on Oct. 4, 2013 at 3:21 PM
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My husband would never ask me to do a threesome and he would never wish to have one either...he would never share with anyone else. Have you tried toys? That is one way to spice it up.

Claire


" I can do all things through Christ who strengthens me." Philippians 4:13 

Anonymous
by Anonymous on Oct. 4, 2013 at 3:23 PM
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Smart man ... Don't you know all these games lead to trouble .... Watching your man fuck another chick isn't spicing shit up ... That's the best ya can come up with??? Just wow
lauren.m
by Platinum Member on Oct. 4, 2013 at 3:24 PM
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If he wanted a threesome you would know. If you keep bringing it up he may feel that he isn't enough for you and that u aren't satisfied. I think maybe go to a sex shop together and get some fun toys and lubes and stuff. would be fun for u to try.
Anonymous
by Anonymous on Oct. 4, 2013 at 3:24 PM
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I don't want a threesome. Here Hunny a threesome for a surprise. LOL talk about not listening to your man.

An no, it's not a fantasy for every man to have a threesome.

Drop the asking, don't surprise him and figure something else out.
.Zombie.Girl.
by on Oct. 4, 2013 at 3:25 PM
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Don't do a threesome if he has made it clear that he doesn't want one.

How about role playing?

Anonymous
by Anonymous on Oct. 4, 2013 at 3:25 PM
That isn't spicing it up! Just have sex, what's wrong with just that??
Anonymous
by Anonymous on Oct. 4, 2013 at 3:26 PM

Just watch some porn.  That always spices things up. 

Anonymous
by Anonymous - Original Poster on Oct. 4, 2013 at 3:27 PM
I've seen on more than a couple occasions that he's looked up porn of girl on girl and threesomes. So I know he thinks it's a turn on.
I feel like he's saying no because he thinks it's a trick or a trap.

Like he thinks I'll say its cool to have one then if he says yes ill get mad that kinda thing. Which isn't the case


Quoting Anonymous:

I don't want a threesome. Here Hunny a threesome for a surprise. LOL talk about not listening to your man.



An no, it's not a fantasy for every man to have a threesome.



Drop the asking, don't surprise him and figure something else out.

bluebunnybabe
by Ruby Member on Oct. 4, 2013 at 3:27 PM
Not all men are in to threesomes. My husband wouldn't be either. I don't have any ideas for you but I wouldn't surprise him with something he's already said he doesn't want.
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