I will still have sole responsibility for two kids. I will still have to wake up every day at 6am. I will still have to do homework, give baths, attend games, read stories, etc... whether YOU are here or not. Every dime I make goes to them. Everything I want, goes on the backburner.
I lost my chance to be a 'normal' mom a long time ago when their dad left. You may walk in his shoes but you are not responsible for their livelihood. You walk away, you get your life back. It's your choice. Everything you do is a genuine favor and while I appreciate it, I know my life will not change whether you are here or gone.
That is all. Got in a fight with BF of three years. I just wish he understood this. We do not have any kids together and while he's great with the kids; I know he isn't really obligated to do or be anything for them.