My DH and I have a wonderful home and a wonderful family. He has 1 son from his 1st marriage which ended 2 yrs ago. I have 2 sons from a past relationship. We are having 1 dd together due in January. We get his DS 1night 2 days a week. So he is 90% with his mom. Now I was talking with my husband and it seems like we are the more stable household. BM lives in a 2 bedroom apartment with just her and her son. There is no man in her life. Now I know her son loves her and loves being with mommy. It just seems that we have the better family home. She just moved out of her parents home. She moved there after the divorce.
My husband said he would go for it. He pays her child support and nothing grinds his gears more than that.
Would you do it? How likely is it that we would win?
We talked to a lawyer and also a friend that works in family court. They both said that we have a good chance in winning since we have a family unit. We will be filling papers next week.