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If you look down on women who stay with cheaters

Anonymous
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What would you do if your parents (hypothetically assuming that they are and always have been married) told you that your father cheated on your mother 20 years ago, and decided to stay?


Would you look down on your mom for working it out (hypothetically assuming that they had a really great life together and a good marriage).



Posted by Anonymous on Oct. 6, 2013 at 9:30 PM
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Anonymous
by Anonymous on Oct. 6, 2013 at 9:32 PM

To each their own i guess.  I was in one of those relationships and stayed 10years past the cheating and could not get past the loss of trust i had for him.  I was not good for me nor the children. 

christina0607
by on Oct. 6, 2013 at 9:32 PM
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It wouldnt be my business, nor would i make it my business.
Anonymous
by Anonymous - Original Poster on Oct. 6, 2013 at 9:33 PM

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brettsmomma
by ~Tammie~ on Oct. 6, 2013 at 9:33 PM
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It takes a strong person to forgive some one of doing something that hurtful. there is nothing to look down upon.

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Beautiful31mom
by on Oct. 6, 2013 at 9:33 PM


Quoting christina0607:

It wouldnt be my business, nor would i make it my business.


God Loves you and So do I.

MIA0223
by Ruby Member on Oct. 6, 2013 at 9:33 PM
I can't answer. My dad was a serial.cheater and my mom was a door mat.
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Beautiful31mom
by on Oct. 6, 2013 at 9:33 PM


Quoting brettsmomma:

It takes a strong person to forgive some one of doing something that hurtful. there is nothing to look down upon.

And this. 

God Loves you and So do I.

Kaelaasmom
by Katie on Oct. 6, 2013 at 9:34 PM

 I absolutely would. My mother raised my sister and I to value ourselves more than that, and my father cheating on her and her staying would make her a huge hypocrite.

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WrstMomever
by on Oct. 6, 2013 at 9:34 PM

I dont look down on them,but I do wonder why they dont feel like they deserve better.My father cheated on my mother and she left him.Probably the only thing she ever got right.

JLo1486
by Gold Member on Oct. 6, 2013 at 9:34 PM
You just answered that question.

Quoting MIA0223:

I can't answer. My dad was a serial.cheater and my mom was a door mat.

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