None. My miscarriages caused enough heartache, without actually causing one!
Yeah. One. I hated myself and became severely suicidal. I did it because I was selfish and didn't want responsibility. I regret it every day of my life and wish I could take it back every day.
ETA I did forget to mention that it was a rape baby.. I thought it would be ok and I would be ok doing it because it was a product of rape but I was just very wrong.. If I had known more about adoption I would have done that but PP pushed for abortion, the doctors pushed for abortion... You know it is like.. If everyone says to do it and it's ok I will be ok and it will be fine but that is a big fat lie.
Mine was almost 20 years ago and no, I don't regret it one bit. I was given Valium to relax me. It wasn't too painful; take your worse cramps and mutiply them by about a factor of 5 or so. There was a nurse next to me who held my hand when the pain increased. I got to stay at the clinic until I felt well enough to go home. I was given a prescription for antibiotics and couldn't do any heavy lifting for a week.
I had 3. One when I was 17, I felt relieved and don't regret it. The other 2 were after DD1 was born, both tubal. Also do not regret them.
3 Miscarriages lots of heartache from each one lots of blaming my self
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