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What to do about partner

Anonymous
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Who is no longer interested in having sex? I just want to cry right now. I feel like he doesn't love me anymore. I thought that I'd do something different and maybe we could actually have sex for once! So I have been dropping hints all day long. . Finally get the kids to bed and he gets on his phone to watch YouTube videos. Hmmm, ok. So I grab him, start playing with him. I stroke him, but he stays limp. Finally, after an hour of him just on his phone I tell him that I'm horny. He goes ooh I'm just so tired and he puts his phone down. I say you have been playing on your phone for an hour, we could have been doing stuff. He then says "uuugh, but I just took a shower".
Wtf, so now I am dirty and disgusting?
He has every excuse in the book, every day.
I feel so ugly, so unloved. I've decided to sleep on the couch tonight.
Ugh :-( Thanks for letting me vent.
Posted by Anonymous on Oct. 7, 2013 at 2:17 AM
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BelleVernonGirl
by Gold Member on Oct. 7, 2013 at 2:19 AM

No clue momma...here's a bump

caligirl7613
by Platinum Member on Oct. 7, 2013 at 2:19 AM
sadly right now im acting like your SO towards mine. he hasnt had any in months. i blame the pregnancy hormones. i mean i still love him. i still find him sexy. the thought of the sex act itself makes me wanna vomit
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Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster on Oct. 7, 2013 at 2:19 AM
Thanks

Quoting BelleVernonGirl:

No clue momma...here's a bump

Anonymous
by Anonymous 2 on Oct. 7, 2013 at 2:20 AM

You start by trying to figure out if he is cheating on you, typically when men show those signs they have someone else they are giving it to. 

Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster on Oct. 7, 2013 at 2:20 AM
That's what I'm worried about. :,-(

Quoting Anonymous:

You start by trying to figure out if he is cheating on you, typically when men show those signs they have someone else they are giving it to. 

Sweet2413
by on Oct. 7, 2013 at 2:21 AM
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I would leave or find someone on the side ;) if hes not giving and meeting your needs i would be up front with him and say your not having sex with me so im going to find someone that will.
justpeachy71904
by peachy on Oct. 7, 2013 at 2:21 AM
Depression? Have you asked him what's going on?

I'm sorry
Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster on Oct. 7, 2013 at 2:22 AM
Yes. He denies anything at all is wrong.

Quoting justpeachy71904:

Depression? Have you asked him what's going on?



I'm sorry
tattooedmama333
by Silver Member on Oct. 7, 2013 at 2:22 AM
How old is he?
zeenah
by Zarah on Oct. 7, 2013 at 2:22 AM

My DH and I go through times like that. It's most when he's really stressed and tired that he doesn't wanna. I just try and sometimes I feel embarrassed when he says no. But I still try. Soloing as he's not cheating on you, you can try to what's going on.

"If we could see the miracle of a single flower clearly, our whole life would change."


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