I found this out because I read all her messages o. Fb. Part of her being allowed on fb is that I always know the password. She knows I regularly check there. I don't know what to do. Obviously, it'd not the end of the world, bit she is way to young for this! She hasn't been grounded, but she will be losing much of her freedoms for now.
This happened at a football game she attended with a friend and her parents. Apparently the parents let them wander around with friends during the game. I live in a very small safe community and this is normal. She will not be allowed this freedom again. Also, it was not posted on Fb, it was a private message. She wasn't "bragging" about it, and it seems to only be kissing and some over the clothing touching. I don't think either are out of the norm for a twelve year old (she'll he 13 next week)