I don't understand peoples mentality. Yes, you may want children and think "We can make it work. ". We are talking about a human being here. Your bringing another human being into the world. I'm on Cafe mom because I have temporary custody of my neice which will end early next year but my husband and in chose to not have kids because we know we will never be able to provide the way we would like. Please explain this mentality - just because you want a kid does not mean you are able to have one. I personally have no interest in bringing a child in this world with the "hope of making it work.".