Be pissed at myself for obviously not parenting to my fullest if my 14yo had a chance/not enough positive influence to have sex that young.
If my 14 year old was having sex I would not allow her to be alone! If she had sex and could be pregnant I would get her the plan b and hope for the best. I hope that parenting her the way I do, she wouldn't have the chance nor would she want it that young but I woudn't let it happen twice.
She would be driven to school with no time to play around before, I would pick her up at the doors, she would be home with me after, she would only go places with friends if I was with her (ie sitting in the back of the movies, walking the mall near her etc) I would give her no privacy with phones or internet. There is no way I would let that slide, at 17 okay, lets get BC and be safe at 14 you are a very young child and I won't give you another chance to have sex.
Be pretty upset, but it's her body and her choice.
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I would be livid.
i dont know what i would do honestly. she would lose the trust we have in her and would be on serious lock down. I would also have serious health talks with her or bring in a professional as to why she felt sex was the way to go.
Quoting ButterMeUp:Be pretty upset, but it's her body and her choice.
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