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PORN!

Anonymous
Posted by Anonymous
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For those of you that have DH/SO/whoever that look at porn..
Have you ever just withheld sex to see what would happen? SO and I have sex daily, but, most of the time he looks at porn, too. I'd have sex with him 3x a day if we could (or HE made an effort)
So I'm wondering..if I withheld sex from him (I NEVER HAVE from the past...I think it's childish), if it would change his views. I'm done with this porn shit. I've been nice and understanding ..BUT NOW IM DONE
Posted by Anonymous on Oct. 9, 2013 at 2:23 PM
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.PinkHart.
by on Oct. 9, 2013 at 2:24 PM
Doubt that would work.
tattooedmama333
by on Oct. 9, 2013 at 2:25 PM

Wont work. My twin went through that with her ex, it just made him look at it more.

nerdymom28
by on Oct. 9, 2013 at 2:26 PM

 Nope, I don't care about porn enough to do that. Also, I don't believe in playing games. That's only punishing myself, anyway.

Nicoleb9
by Emerald Member on Oct. 9, 2013 at 2:26 PM
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I highly doubt it. He'd probably do something equally passive aggressive and start watching even more porn.
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TheDrsRose
by on Oct. 9, 2013 at 2:27 PM
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Why would giving him less pussy make you think he won't just look at more pussy?
instant
by Ruby Member on Oct. 9, 2013 at 2:28 PM
He may look at it more.
larissa5512
by on Oct. 9, 2013 at 2:30 PM
I look at it with him, he says its hot lol. We have had our dry spells and we both find we both look at it more the less we have it....
Kaelaasmom
by Katie on Oct. 9, 2013 at 2:32 PM

 I don't have an issue with porn, and I find withholding sex an immature way to deal with problems.

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sheloveearth
by Gold Member on Oct. 9, 2013 at 2:34 PM


This, also why was it OK at first and now it is not?

Quoting Nicoleb9:

I highly doubt it. He'd probably do something equally passive aggressive and start watching even more porn.



Anonymous
by Anonymous 2 on Oct. 9, 2013 at 2:35 PM

Would it change his views on what, exactly? Um, no. It's not going to give him a revelation if that's what you mean. He will probably just start jerking to the porn in place of it.

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