Do you feel bad telling people if you go to the bar?
I went to the bar last night.
Stayed the night with my BFF at her house
Woke up this morning and went to breakfast. My BFF has a daughter and one of the parents from the class her daughter is in was there and she asked what we were up to and we were just catching up. BFF was like, "Yah we went out, trying to beat the hang over and eat!" She looked so sad at us and said "You guys get to go out?" We were like, "yah, we over did it." (In reality we did but we didn't get to the bar til 1a and it closes at 2a.) Then she looks at both of us and is all "You don't have to work? You get to stay home?" With the saddest look on her face.
OMG I was thinking in my head I don't want to talk about it anymore because I do work and I work in a very professional area, my days off are just odd and my son goes with his dad so I have girls night on weird nights. But I don't want to explain that to every one.
When we got in the car my BFF was like "That girl works so much, she works at the restaurant until 4pm and then she has to go straight to another job, she is at work every day of the week."
Then I felt even worse because she sounded so sad to learn that we were just out having a good time and she's busting her ass working.
She's a single mommy too. But we are different. I'm technically a single parent but I co-parent and my BFF is engaged and her daughter knows her fiance as dad so we both get a lot of help so I always feel bad to know that some people are just struggling so hard. I struggle too mostly because of tuition, but it's different, KWIM??
idk just a little rant/vent