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How many times?

Posted by on Oct. 9, 2013 at 9:53 PM
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Scenario:

You have a friend, you have known them several years. You continually offer to hang out. You are continually turned down. Lets say 8 out of 10 times. The excuses are lame, not really valid. Do you keep trying or give up. I know there is more to the story, just seeing what you all may think based on the info given?
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Mom2RSD
by on Oct. 9, 2013 at 9:54 PM
I'd probably stop trying, and assume if/when they wanted to hang out they'd seek me out
squeekers
by squeekers on Oct. 9, 2013 at 9:55 PM
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 I would stop asking. they know how to find you.

kourtneya
by on Oct. 9, 2013 at 9:55 PM

I would give up. I had a friend that kept giving me lame excuses why she couldn't hang out. We no longer talk.

Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 on Oct. 9, 2013 at 9:55 PM
It sounds like your friend is just not that into you.

I wouldnt get to ten times asking someone to figure this out.
Heisenberg
by on Oct. 9, 2013 at 9:56 PM

I gave up. We were best friends in HS school then she became a flake. Eventually I gave up. 

PinkButterfly66
by Sapphire Member on Oct. 9, 2013 at 9:56 PM

I would give up.  They obviously don't want to be friends.

ittyprincess604
by Ruby Member on Oct. 9, 2013 at 9:57 PM
Agree.

Quoting squeekers:

 I would stop asking. they know how to find you.

wonderstruck11
by on Oct. 9, 2013 at 9:57 PM
It happened to me. She was my best friend but suddenly she never wanted to hang out and eventually stopped replying to my texts. I haven't spoken to her in 3 years now.
lauraschatz
by on Oct. 9, 2013 at 9:57 PM
Let it go. If the person is a friend they will seek you out.
glorytojehovah
by on Oct. 9, 2013 at 9:57 PM

I would have given up after a few tries but we are all different.

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