What is the secret to sex with condoms? The guy I'm seeing just can't get the job finished with a condom on. We got all riled up and had unprotected sex once and it was AMAZING. But the other few times we've had sex, we were being responsible and used a condom and he loses his erection and can't finish. Mind you, I've helped out in other ways so that he still has a good time, but otherwise, I'm not sure what to do.
Keep in mind, we are not kids. We are both a bit below and a bit over 40.
Edit- I would love to have unprotected sex. I'm on BC, have successfully not gotten pregnant for many many years. But...I HAVE AN STD. Although the risk of him getting it is slim, it's still a risk. Using condoms reduces his his to 1-2%. BC is not the issue, protection is.