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Edit- He can't get there with a condom

Anonymous
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What is the secret to sex with condoms? The guy I'm seeing just can't get the job finished with a condom on. We got all riled up and had unprotected sex once and it was AMAZING. But the other few times we've had sex, we were being responsible and used a condom and he loses his erection and can't finish. Mind you, I've helped out in other ways so that he still has a good time, but otherwise, I'm not sure what to do.

Keep in mind, we are not kids. We are both a bit below and a bit over 40.

Edit- I would love to have unprotected sex. I'm on BC, have successfully not gotten pregnant for many many years. But...I HAVE AN STD. Although the risk of him getting it is slim, it's still a risk. Using condoms reduces his his to 1-2%. BC is not the issue, protection is.

Any advise?
Posted by Anonymous on Oct. 10, 2013 at 11:29 AM
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BEXi
by BEXi on Oct. 10, 2013 at 11:30 AM
Other options? Spermicide?
momof2gingers
by on Oct. 10, 2013 at 11:31 AM
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Nothing from me. I'm usually the one that rips it off and throws it away. I hate the dang things
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Mychele
by Ruby Member on Oct. 10, 2013 at 11:31 AM
Try other types of condoms
JackieGirl007
by on Oct. 10, 2013 at 11:31 AM

No sex lol. Condoms are the only thing that could protect you from STD's. You have to think about that in today's world.

Smoore922
by Member on Oct. 10, 2013 at 11:32 AM

 Try spermicide or another for of bc...

Anonymous
by Anonymous 2 on Oct. 10, 2013 at 11:32 AM

hes lazy and doesnt want to have protected sex. please protect yourself' 

momof2girls89
by Platinum Member on Oct. 10, 2013 at 11:33 AM
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Both of you get tested to make sure there are no std's and then switch to other options?
Motherof3inNJ
by Gold Member on Oct. 10, 2013 at 11:34 AM

DF is 40 and we always use condoms. We've noticed differences with brands, some stop me from getting wet and then he loses his erection. We've been using Trojan ultrathins for 2 years and no problems.

.Milfshake.
by SoNastySoRude on Oct. 10, 2013 at 11:35 AM



Quoting momof2girls89:

Both of you get tested to make sure there are no std's and then switch to other options?

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jaycam
by on Oct. 10, 2013 at 11:35 AM

My DH is the same way and always has been. Why don't you just get on BC

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