I am having troubles with my child when it comes to homework. Especially with spelling. I am suppose to give them a spelling test on Thursday night. I do NOT go in order. My child argues with me that her teacher says "to go in order" that they are listed. I don't believe the teacher really cares what order they are in as long as we do the test. So after arguing with her, I have a headache and her spelling test is not done. I am emailing the teacher but I feel like I am running to the teacher and therefore putting myself at the same level with my child. She said, no she said thing. I told her to write her spelling words five times for me. Still, is giving me a hard time. I refuse to sign off on her sheet. I don't know what to do to get her to see that she is wasting all of our time being defiant with me. Anyone else have a child that is so bent on the teacher's way or no way?