I've been married for 10 years this November. The past 4.5 years, we've been sleeping in separate rooms. I've recently meet a kind, caring man whom if like to know better. Like I said, I'm still living with my spouse, due to financial reasons, but we have no relationship other than being parents to our children. Would it be wrong to start dating before the divorce? Should I ask my spouse if he'd be ok with it?