I'm 9 weeks, 1 day pregnant. When I foudn out at 4 weeks my boyfriend asked me and we talked for a week and I said no. I've always thought I was pro-life for myself. I don't think I could live with myself if I aborted. But the further along I go, the more I think that I don't want to be pregnant or have another baby right now. I'm 22 years old, and we haven't been officially dating all that long. We've been friends for years and he's really supportive of my decision and has come to appointments and helps out. But I'm a single mom to my 18-month-old, we're not at that stage where he'd step up, it's still early. I'm also in school. I'm a full-time Honours Psychology student. The further along I go, the more I think I'm happy with one child. I don't want to cause an emotional rift. Things will be complicated. I want to be in school and finish and be successful. It's exponentially harder with two children.
I don't know what to do. I don't know if I could have an abortion. Someday I hope I miscarry... it's horrible but then it's not me making the decision. :( I know I'll bond when I get further along and I know things will come together and they will find a way to work but it's hard right now.
And to answer your question.. we were using protection but I didn't know there was a pill recall.