My husband is so distant, he shows me no real affection, doesn't want to date and is all about his business. I have felt like this marriage is now that of convenience. We are raising our child together and trying to obtain things in life but the romance is gone.
I met someone online (bash away ladies....I deserve it). He has filled a void, a huge void. I've been married for 14 years and feel so alone. This person is somewhat vulnerable. Seeking a real relationship with someone so that he can show them ALL of his love. He doesn't know me. I could never offer him that with current situation (marriage). He's nothing like my husband. A man that every woman says 'he would do any and everything for you', yet the romantic man in him is gone. I don't know where he went. We've both accomplished a lot together but what do these material things mean when there is no emotional Iove? We both gave up on that part of the marriage. Sex comes once every 2 months and its so predictable until it's boring. I have to be honest, he does not arouse me at all.
The replies that I will respond to will be those that are void of nastiness and vulgarity. I don't need that right now. This is a confessions group and so what I did was confess the problem that I am having right now. I don't need to be made to feel trashy because I am not trash. I'm a woman that has a marital problem and acknowledges it.