Tonight as I was cooling my dd's plate and fixing my ds'. The gf takes her older ds to the bathroom since he said he needed to poop. The next thing I hear is hysterical crying from the kid followed by a 10 minute tieade of mocking his crying and humiliating him every way she can. I tried my best not to interfere at first but it crosse d a line and I told my brother he either stopped it or I would and she could leave. He put their lil one down and went to talk to her.
She says she wasn't doing anything wrong, wasn't being mean at all. He (ds) was just being whiny. He (my lil bro) comes back and tells me that. I say oh hell no I could hear every word. He goes back there she comes out and starts feeding their lil one.
He stays back there so he can go as gf says he can't get up till he poops. He is then forced to sit on the toilet for ~45 minutes until I insist he get off.
I see it as abusive but I want to know if you think I'm over reacting.
Either way it will not be allowed to happen in my home ever again. Even if I have to throw her out bodily.