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Is this considered abuse?

Anonymous
Posted by Anonymous
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I feel like my husband treats me like a child. He gets mad at me when I disagree with him on anything (even minor things like what drink I want.)

When he's mad he will pull my hair, throw any objects he can find at me, and has even spat on me and poured water on me. I Try to leave but he is always apologetic. He just acts that way when he doesn't get his way.

Wwyd?
Posted by Anonymous on Oct. 13, 2013 at 11:20 PM
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liss.n.chris
by on Oct. 13, 2013 at 11:22 PM
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He's an abusive dick. Leave and don't look back. He apologizes to control you, not because he means it.
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fairyjester
by on Oct. 13, 2013 at 11:22 PM
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i was going to write a long response but really  i see no reason to waste my time on someone like you.

rhope4
by Silver Member on Oct. 13, 2013 at 11:23 PM

I agree.  The only way it'll change is to get worse.

Quoting liss.n.chris:

He's an abusive dick. Leave and don't look back. He apologizes to control you, not because he means it.


Not_A_Native
by Ruby Member on Oct. 13, 2013 at 11:23 PM

Leave.  Ignore the apologies, because he doesn't really mean it.  Yes, he is abusive.  Would you put up with a stranger acting that way towards you?

JealousGrrl
by Gold Member on Oct. 13, 2013 at 11:24 PM
I wouldn't stand for that. Sounds like abuse to me. He's demeaning you and then apologizing to keep you around. Don't let him control you. GL
happymommy1105
by Silver Member on Oct. 13, 2013 at 11:24 PM

uh yes that is abuse.

you need to leave.  he isn't going to change- he is going to get worse.

call the domestic violence hotliine and get help

Creolelady98
by on Oct. 13, 2013 at 11:25 PM
Leave before he kills you! No apologies should be accepted for behavior like that
rhope4
by Silver Member on Oct. 13, 2013 at 11:25 PM

Again, agreed.  They can send you things on what to look for in an abusive situation.  Once you see the literature or the pages on the web, all doubt will be erased.

Quoting happymommy1105:

uh yes that is abuse.

you need to leave.  he isn't going to change- he is going to get worse.

call the domestic violence hotliine and get help


Anonymous
by Anonymous on Oct. 13, 2013 at 11:27 PM

Call the police the next time he does it, you'll see exactly how abusive and illegal that is. He'll get hauled away in cuffs and they'll force a restraining order. Stop taking him back, what part of what you just wrote sounds like love? Don't you usually stop if you're TRULY apologetic? You're on CM so I'm assuming you're a mother. Any kids in the house who see this are going to grow up fucked up, that's on you. They'll either need major therapy or they'll grow up to be abusers themselves. It's time to start using your brain here instead of your heart.

greatwhiteshark
by Bronze Member on Oct. 13, 2013 at 11:28 PM
I was going to say pretty much the same thing. He will only get worse.


Quoting happymommy1105:

uh yes that is abuse.

you need to leave.  he isn't going to change- he is going to get worse.

call the domestic violence hotliine and get help


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