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is this rape? Updated

Anonymous
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My ex and I have a 1 and 3 year old.we broke up because he cheated on me numerous times. Now I am a single mother, and although I make a decent amount hourly, I cannot afford daycare on my own. Its bad enough he only gives me 100 per week,but he demands sex for it. I hate him. I dont even want him to touch me. But when I say no, he throws a huge tantrum and refuses to give me the money for the daycare an jeapordizes my job. What do I do. When I give up and say yes, I feel horrible and he makes me feel like a whore.Even when I cry he doesnt care.


Update: he IS on child support, but he simply does not pay it. I have applied for assistance with daycare but apparently 15/ hr Is over the income requirement. He doesnt get a paycheck so CS cant just take it out. I do not have a single family member in this state and the only friends I have work during the day. Am I supposed to live in the street? We have nowhere to go and he knows that
Posted by Anonymous on Oct. 14, 2013 at 7:42 AM
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1L2CMommy
by Silver Member on Oct. 14, 2013 at 7:43 AM
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No, it's prostitution.
Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster on Oct. 14, 2013 at 7:43 AM
BUMP
Anonymous
by Anonymous 2 on Oct. 14, 2013 at 7:44 AM

Wow, what a dick.  It 's not rape, but it's  messed up.

Anonymous
by Anonymous 3 on Oct. 14, 2013 at 7:44 AM
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Let CSEA deal with him. They will help you get paid and you can stop sleeping with him. It's manipulation.
Anonymous
by Anonymous 4 on Oct. 14, 2013 at 7:45 AM
Whores accept money for sex so ......

File for child support or apply for daycare assistance. Stop giving it up. It's not rape.
AvengedMommy101
by on Oct. 14, 2013 at 7:46 AM
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You should be going for child support if you can't support your kids without his help. I wouldn't call it rape because you are still willingly giving in to him. Your reasoning is fucked up. There's other ways to make money to support your kids. I agree with the first reply, it's prostitution.

kidslovemom
by on Oct. 14, 2013 at 7:46 AM

You need to get court ordered child support.  Go to a lawyer.

funlovinlady
by Gold Member on Oct. 14, 2013 at 7:46 AM

That's not rape. That's you whoring yourself out for 100.00. 

pandorasbox669
by on Oct. 14, 2013 at 7:47 AM

This


Quoting Anonymous:

Let CSEA deal with him. They will help you get paid and you can stop sleeping with him. It's manipulation.



Anonymous
by Anonymous 5 on Oct. 14, 2013 at 7:47 AM
Yes it is rape, he coerced you.

Why do you not have a custody order? A CS order? A restraining order?
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