my sister is trying to convince me that I was molested
This is her message to me:
Do you have any memories of C---- acting inappropriate with you like holding your hand or feeling your hair or letting you lay on top of him? I remember seeing him do that kinda stuff to you at grandmas old house when we were little.
Well I never think it is ok to let young children lay in top of you or hold there hand while watching a movie. I saw him kiss you on the lips when we were watching Winnie the Pooh that is not normal. I don't think it is even ok for any guy to hold your daughters hands or let them as men lay on top of them family or not. I just want you to try to remember and be honest with your self about him and get some counseling.
My response:I don't remember him kissing me on the lips ever. I don't even remember laying on top of him. I sat next to him...and he held my hand occasionally....but it was never bad, sexual, or awkward.
I've been in counseling for many years. I've healed from many things. For some reason, I don't feel like I was ever molested by C----. I was molested by a neighbor and date raped by someone else. I've been to counseling for those things.