DH has been neglecting his job as a husband and father. Always degrading me and being addicted to video games.I recently found out that he put his hands around my child throat while angry. That was the icing on the cake. I can deal with emotional abuse but not any abuse toward my kids. We have 2 dd and I have a ds from a previous relationship, he was the one that got the abuse. I asked him to leave 3 wks ago and he admitted that he has not tried to give our relationship any effort. I was hurt and found that I resented him for that. idk f I want to work out our marriage. Although now he is oh so eager to do whatever it takes to keep me, I know him too well. He will change for a minute but then he will go back to the same ol selfish asshole. I am not gonna lie, during this time I have become interested in a friend of mine. We havent crossed any lines but we have told each other that we do like each other a lot. He is also married but they hate each other. The only reason he is still with her is bc he stands to lose millions in a divorce. Being together is not even in the near future at all but I dont want to stay in a relationship where I do it all with no help. Am I wrong? Should I give DH another chance to prove that he cant change? And no my problem with DH started more than 2 yrs ago, my friend and I just started talking 3 wks ago. I just dont want to go too far and hurt anyone.