A few years ago I arrived at my dd's school to pick her up. I notice she is carrying someone's books. I didn't think much of it. She saw me and handed the stuff over and came to me. Over the next few days I noticed the same thing... I asked about it.
This is what she told me.
Layla said that my people owned her people as slaves so that means I have to do things for her as payback. If I don't then I will go to hell and she might beat me up.
I immediately brought this to the headmasters attention as well as the teacher. They pretty much thought dd was old enough to deal with it on her own...she was 7.
In my opinion....this is what keeps slavery fresh. This is what keeps racism going. And this attitude is what keeps hatred.
I think it is fine to teach and talk to your kids about racism...but you are not owed anything.