I just moms who divorce their husbands because they 'fell out of love' but still get along, and their husband is a hard worker, a good dad and trying to make things work. Im seeing a lot of this, this year. I know two moms who are my 'friends' that are divorcing their perfectly good husbands because the 'spark' is gone. Both have filed for divorce and one has not moved out, and they have been with other guys on the side since before they filed. I judge them both and have no desire to be their friends anymore. One of the girls just moved out into a room she is renting from some college chick. She lives in the same town as her husband and sees her daughters twice a week. Her husband is in the military and works his ass off, and takes care of the kids all on his own. One of their kids is still just a baby and has special needs. She said she just wasnt in love with her husband anymore and started meeting guys from offline. Her husband was crushed and tried everything possible win her back. Her kids hate her now.
The other lady is a military woman and her husband is also in the military. She is just in the guard now and stays home most of the time with her kids. Her husband JUST got back from a deployment and she told him she wants a divorce. Come to find out, she has been shacking up with some young dude she met at drill. Her husband is trying to win her back but she is refusing and filed for divorce. Her reasoning was she just doesnt love him anymore.
So YES I do judge moms who cant get past the dulldrums in their marriages and throw it all away because they think they are not in love anymore. Love is a choice, not a feeeling. Its something that requires commitment and dedication. Lust is a temporary feeling that will come and go over the years.