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If you have lost custody of your child?

Anonymous
Posted by Anonymous
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How do you deal with it?

What was the reason you lost?

Do you have to pay child support?

What did people say/do to help you?

Does it get easier ?


My sister in law just lost she now has every other weekend and holiday plus 6 weeks in summer... Not sure how to help...
Posted by Anonymous on Oct. 19, 2013 at 1:22 PM
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Anonymous
by Anonymous on Oct. 19, 2013 at 1:25 PM
I lost custody and parental rights.
Anonymous
by Anonymous - Original Poster on Oct. 19, 2013 at 1:27 PM
:( sorry I couldn't imagine... My SIL is really upset and still sees them....


Quoting Anonymous:

I lost custody and parental rights.

Anonymous
by Anonymous on Oct. 19, 2013 at 1:29 PM
Yeah. I wouldn't wish this on my worst enemy.


Quoting Anonymous:

:( sorry I couldn't imagine... My SIL is really upset and still sees them....




Quoting Anonymous:

I lost custody and parental rights.


vindicated
by Silver Member on Oct. 19, 2013 at 1:30 PM

i was a wreck. literally was going crazy. its gotten easier.

i was doing my best and made bad choices.

it gets easier each day. i have days where i have nervous breakdowns. yesterday was one. but i'm laughing again.

the thing that hurt the MOST was peoples lack of care and help. i was in depression so bad i almost commited suicide and i couldnt get a family member or friend to ask " how are you doing?'


laranadtony
by Ruby Member on Oct. 19, 2013 at 1:30 PM

I lost custody because I was trying to get out of an abusive relationship with a drug addict and I trusted my mother.

laranadtony
by Ruby Member on Oct. 19, 2013 at 1:32 PM
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Quoting vindicated:

i was a wreck. literally was going crazy. its gotten easier.

i was doing my best and made bad choices.

it gets easier each day. i have days where i have nervous breakdowns. yesterday was one. but i'm laughing again.

the thing that hurt the MOST was peoples lack of care and help. i was in depression so bad i almost commited suicide and i couldnt get a family member or friend to ask " how are you doing?'


Remember what I told you, get out there and use your time until you get them back wisely.

Go to school. Go to therapy. Build a new you that you like and noone can dispute is worthy of these kids. (I am sure you are worthy already but others may not see it)

Don't sweat the petty things;Don't pet the sweaty things!

tardistraveller
by on Oct. 19, 2013 at 1:34 PM

what did you do?

Quoting Anonymous:

I lost custody and parental rights.


 


Anonymous
by Anonymous - Original Poster on Oct. 19, 2013 at 1:35 PM
See I'm not sure if I should talk go her, let it go...

Ask her to lunch... Take her lunch...

I don't want to say,ask,do the wrong things


Quoting vindicated:

i was a wreck. literally was going crazy. its gotten easier.

i was doing my best and made bad choices.

it gets easier each day. i have days where i have nervous breakdowns. yesterday was one. but i'm laughing again.

the thing that hurt the MOST was peoples lack of care and help. i was in depression so bad i almost commited suicide and i couldnt get a family member or friend to ask " how are you doing?'



vindicated
by Silver Member on Oct. 19, 2013 at 1:35 PM


i am proud to say i start school in january :)

i have everything in my name. i start therapy soon. and i havent taken sleeping meds in a month :)

thank you :) i took your advice. i'm gonna get better. :)

Quoting laranadtony:


Quoting vindicated:

i was a wreck. literally was going crazy. its gotten easier.

i was doing my best and made bad choices.

it gets easier each day. i have days where i have nervous breakdowns. yesterday was one. but i'm laughing again.

the thing that hurt the MOST was peoples lack of care and help. i was in depression so bad i almost commited suicide and i couldnt get a family member or friend to ask " how are you doing?'


Remember what I told you, get out there and use your time until you get them back wisely.

Go to school. Go to therapy. Build a new you that you like and noone can dispute is worthy of these kids. (I am sure you are worthy already but others may not see it)



Anonymous
by Anonymous on Oct. 19, 2013 at 1:36 PM
Its a long story.


Quoting tardistraveller:

what did you do?

Quoting Anonymous:

I lost custody and parental rights.



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