he's military, married, father of two. here's the problem, his wife beats him, all the time. not just when she feels he's done something to warrant it, but even if she is mad about something completely unrelated to him.
she kicks him out, and as soon as he leaves, she's texting and calling him, saying she needs to go to the e.r. for " chest pains" or some other easily made up ailment.
I've offered him a room at my house, but with military rules how they are, his command said he couldn't live with a single woman, not even as a roommate, unless his divorce is final.
he came back to my house last night, this makes the third time. he said he's just going to stay here until his command finds out, then maybe they will take him serious about him trying to stay away from his abuser, and help him out of his situation.
I hate seeing him like this, he's always been the strong one in our friendship, seeing him so defeated is heartbreaking. I just don't want to be the cause for him running his career, because I'm "single"