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Should EXTREMELY/MORBIDLY obese women conceive? **EDIT**

Do you think that a woman that is MORBIDLY obese and with out children should have kids?

IMO if I were obese I wouldn't want to get pregnant and have kids. If I'm not healthy enough to care for myself then how can I be healthy enough to care for my child. I think it's a bad example, and selfish. Yes I know there are so many other ways of showing bad habits, but I'm strictly talking about obese women.

And before you start. I am ONLY talking about OBESE women w NO kids. Nothing else. I don't care about their reason for being fat, I don't care about their situation or other bad examples. So please stick to the topic.

**** I am not trying to stir the pot. I am asking a question. I'm not saying women that are obese should not have kids either. I am almost 5ft an I weigh 160. According to my BMI I am obese, but looking at me you would never guess my weight. I am really talking about the women that are 100+ over weight and can't move around w out a scooter. I am not judging, and I'm not a bitch. Yes I have my opinion, but that's all it is. I'm not trying to change anyone's life. I'm just curious to know what you think. Also this isn't Fat vs Skinny. Lol, there are so many different body types and to say that either you're fat or skinny is ridiculous. I am curvy. My body is evenly chunky. I do not look obese.

by on Oct. 20, 2013 at 2:01 PM
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Lilfootmommy
by on Oct. 20, 2013 at 2:15 PM
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I think they should be able to have kids if they want but I also think they are risking a lot and its a bad example. They could always adopt if they wanted a kid sooo badly
briellesmomma
by Velvet on Oct. 20, 2013 at 2:16 PM
I was thinking the same thing.

Quoting Osstie:

I never understand this question... "Should so and so be able to have kids"... I don't fucking know!! Why should I have an opinion? It's not my business who has kids and who does not. It's not my decision to make.
handy0318
by Platinum Member on Oct. 20, 2013 at 2:16 PM
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Oh brother...

I should start a thread... "Should Judgmental B*tches Be Allowed to Conceive?"

After all... these are the women breeding the bullies and the snobs... wouldn't society be much better off without them?


briellesmomma
by Velvet on Oct. 20, 2013 at 2:17 PM
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You're hot

Quoting Anonymous:

Here's my obese self....the bmi charts can suck it!
Osstie
by Gold Member on Oct. 20, 2013 at 2:17 PM
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Op I think you mean morbidly obese.
Anonymous
by Anonymous 11 on Oct. 20, 2013 at 2:18 PM
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I think it is more dangerous for a super duper fat person to have a baby, especially if they end up needing a section. That would keep me from trying to have a baby without losing weight first.
MamaRae85
by *you're on Oct. 20, 2013 at 2:18 PM


Quoting Tairy-Hesticles:

And before you start. I am ONLY talking about OBESE women w NO kids.

This sentence confuses me. Why are you only talking about those with no kids? Does this mean that one would believe that it's okay for obese women with children to conceive, but not for those without children?

NVL0707
by Ruby Member on Oct. 20, 2013 at 2:18 PM
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Is this really something you think about? Other women's reproductive choices are no ones business but their own.
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panther79
by Gold Member on Oct. 20, 2013 at 2:18 PM

i dont think ignorant people should have kids but they still do.

OCALAMOMOFTWINS
by Bronze Member on Oct. 20, 2013 at 2:19 PM

 Then come back! Where are you now?


Quoting Anonymous:

My son was born in ocala!!!! Miss it :(


Quoting OCALAMOMOFTWINS:

 This skinny bitch agrees!


 


Quoting Anonymous:

I'm considered obese and have 3....was considered obese before I got pregnant....and yes, I deserve my children just as much as a skinny bitch!!

 


 



 

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