Im posting anon because im embaressed and ashamed. Dh and i were going through a rough patch and decided to take a break. Well long story short we got back together. Everything was going great until 2 weeks ago. It started to hurt really bad everytime i went to the bathroom.i summed it up as a bladder infection. Started drinking cranberry juice but it wasnt getting any better.i waited ot out to see if it would stop and it didnt. Then 2 days ago i noticed a sore on the inside of my labia. I confronted dh because i hadnt slept with anyone during our break and from what he said he didnt either. Well he confessed he had sex with someone else. I was crushed. I have an appointment tomorrow but all my symptoms point to herpes. Ive never felt so low in my life. He didnt even have the decency to tell me so i could protect myself until he got checked. So now im probably stuck with this for life. He apologized begged me not to leave him but im so unsure. I guess this is a vent/asking for advice. I dont know what to do.