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So it is happening UPDATE 10/22/2013

I have posted in here about issues with my DH. 

Well he is leaving tomorrow and we dont know how long for. 

I cant do this anymore right now. 

I lost a GOOD job because of having to call off cuz he decided to check himself into the hospital. 

I have a new job now where i only work when the kids are in school. Once in awhile they might need me on a Sunday but ds6's den mother from cubscouts said she would watch both boys on that day. 


I cant do this. By the goddess i do love him but i cannot help him anymore. I cannot deal with the fighting and the flip flop. I cant handle in and out of the hospital. 

I told him and his grandmother agrees, for different reasons i am sure, that he needs to work on himself and he cannot do that while here. 


So he is leaving tomorrow. 



10/22/2013  UPDATE!

So dh left for a doctor's appt at 10am central time. He is currently waiting for the bus to show up at 2:50pm to take him to his grandmothers. 

He was telling me that he doesnt think this is a good idea. He feels like he is walking out on his family. I explained to him that he is not walking out. He will still be in contact with all 3 of us. I told him the door is not closing and that he can come back when he has his head clear. 

He told me that he has a feeling he is going to be down there and things are gonna be easier and he is not gonna wanna come back. 

I told him that, that is HIS choice but there is not going to be back and forth. 

He agreed

Update again 10/22/2013

Well DH is on the bus heading towards Milwakee, Wisconsin. 


UPDATE 10/23/2013

DH called him this morning and told me that he was at the hospital in Kentucky. He apparently had an anxiety attack. They released him a little bit late and he missed the bus. So they rerouted him and his grandmother is going to meet him in Atlanta Georgia at 11:30pm eastern time. and then drive back home to SC. 


UPDATE 10/24/2013

Well DH made it to Atlanta, Georgia. His grandmother picked him up and he is getting some much needed rest!

Grandpa, 
I love you. 
You are not of this earth no more
But i know your spirit is. 
You are with all of us forever more. 
No more tears shall fall from your eyes
No more pain you will ever feel. 
You are in my heart always and forever more. 
I love you more than words can express
 

Sept. 21, 1938 - Oct. 24, 2012

by on Oct. 21, 2013 at 7:16 PM
Replies (11-20):
mommysangelface
by Emerald Member on Oct. 21, 2013 at 7:28 PM
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thanks doll.  i need to go in the other group and answer the question you asked me last night.  lol

Quoting vegaswife2011:

Hugs mama. Hopefully this will end up being a good thing. I'm so sorry :(


princessputter
by Silver Member on Oct. 21, 2013 at 7:29 PM

hugsss  momma


crescentstar2
by Anne on Oct. 21, 2013 at 7:29 PM
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there's a lot of us that are here for you and care about you. muah

Quoting mommysangelface:

thanks babe!

Quoting crescentstar2:

hugs 



mommysangelface
by Emerald Member on Oct. 21, 2013 at 7:29 PM

thank you!

Quoting princessputter:

hugsss  momma



JanineDeer
by Janine on Oct. 21, 2013 at 7:29 PM
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Sounds like he an addict? You are SO SO right- HE has to decide to change, you  cant be his crutch or an enabler

You sound like an amazing strong woman

HumanBeing
by on Oct. 21, 2013 at 7:30 PM
Hope he gets well.
mommysangelface
by Emerald Member on Oct. 21, 2013 at 7:30 PM

thank you hunni! alot of you have become like family to me!

especially you  <3

Quoting crescentstar2:

there's a lot of us that are here for you and care about you. muah

Quoting mommysangelface:

thanks babe!

Quoting crescentstar2:

hugs 




mommysangelface
by Emerald Member on Oct. 21, 2013 at 7:32 PM

no. he is not an addict.  he has severe bipolar, depression, anxiety and seizure disorder.  

i wish i could take credit for being strong. there are women on this site, who have helped me so much

Quoting JanineDeer:

Sounds like he an addict? You are SO SO right- HE has to decide to change, you  cant be his crutch or an enabler

You sound like an amazing strong woman


vegaswife2011
by Emerald Member on Oct. 21, 2013 at 7:32 PM

Oh boy, what did I ask? Lol

Quoting mommysangelface:

thanks doll.  i need to go in the other group and answer the question you asked me last night.  lol

Quoting vegaswife2011:

Hugs mama. Hopefully this will end up being a good thing. I'm so sorry :(



mommysangelface
by Emerald Member on Oct. 21, 2013 at 7:32 PM

i do to. i want my family.....

Quoting HumanBeing:

Hope he gets well.


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