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So it is happening UPDATE 10/22/2013

I have posted in here about issues with my DH. 

Well he is leaving tomorrow and we dont know how long for. 

I cant do this anymore right now. 

I lost a GOOD job because of having to call off cuz he decided to check himself into the hospital. 

I have a new job now where i only work when the kids are in school. Once in awhile they might need me on a Sunday but ds6's den mother from cubscouts said she would watch both boys on that day. 


I cant do this. By the goddess i do love him but i cannot help him anymore. I cannot deal with the fighting and the flip flop. I cant handle in and out of the hospital. 

I told him and his grandmother agrees, for different reasons i am sure, that he needs to work on himself and he cannot do that while here. 


So he is leaving tomorrow. 



10/22/2013  UPDATE!

So dh left for a doctor's appt at 10am central time. He is currently waiting for the bus to show up at 2:50pm to take him to his grandmothers. 

He was telling me that he doesnt think this is a good idea. He feels like he is walking out on his family. I explained to him that he is not walking out. He will still be in contact with all 3 of us. I told him the door is not closing and that he can come back when he has his head clear. 

He told me that he has a feeling he is going to be down there and things are gonna be easier and he is not gonna wanna come back. 

I told him that, that is HIS choice but there is not going to be back and forth. 

He agreed

Update again 10/22/2013

Well DH is on the bus heading towards Milwakee, Wisconsin. 


UPDATE 10/23/2013

DH called him this morning and told me that he was at the hospital in Kentucky. He apparently had an anxiety attack. They released him a little bit late and he missed the bus. So they rerouted him and his grandmother is going to meet him in Atlanta Georgia at 11:30pm eastern time. and then drive back home to SC. 


UPDATE 10/24/2013

Well DH made it to Atlanta, Georgia. His grandmother picked him up and he is getting some much needed rest!

Grandpa, 
I love you. 
You are not of this earth no more
But i know your spirit is. 
You are with all of us forever more. 
No more tears shall fall from your eyes
No more pain you will ever feel. 
You are in my heart always and forever more. 
I love you more than words can express
 

Sept. 21, 1938 - Oct. 24, 2012

by on Oct. 21, 2013 at 7:16 PM
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athomeincome
by Member on Oct. 21, 2013 at 7:32 PM

hmm in Sickness and in health?

mommysangelface
by Emerald Member on Oct. 21, 2013 at 7:32 PM
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i quoted you in DI

lol

Quoting vegaswife2011:

Oh boy, what did I ask? Lol

Quoting mommysangelface:

thanks doll.  i need to go in the other group and answer the question you asked me last night.  lol

Quoting vegaswife2011:

Hugs mama. Hopefully this will end up being a good thing. I'm so sorry :(




Anonymous
by Anonymous on Oct. 21, 2013 at 7:32 PM
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It is so hard for you. I can tell. Hun your kids need the stability it sounds like they are not getting with him there (emotional stability as well as physical). It will be hard on you all but it sounds best for now. You need a hug.
mommysangelface
by Emerald Member on Oct. 21, 2013 at 7:33 PM

yup. i cant help him at home

Quoting athomeincome:

hmm in Sickness and in health?


mommysangelface
by Emerald Member on Oct. 21, 2013 at 7:34 PM

it is. i know they are not. and thats what i keep telling him. he wont listen to that though. he thinks all kids can just "bounce back"  ugh

he doesnt think it is best but i know it is

thank you

Quoting Anonymous:

It is so hard for you. I can tell. Hun your kids need the stability it sounds like they are not getting with him there (emotional stability as well as physical). It will be hard on you all but it sounds best for now. You need a hug.


Anonymous
by Anonymous on Oct. 21, 2013 at 7:34 PM

Good luck. It's good that he's leaving tomorrow to work on himself.

SkellyBird
by Silver Member on Oct. 21, 2013 at 7:34 PM

That sucks dude, sorry you're going through it :(

mommysangelface
by Emerald Member on Oct. 21, 2013 at 7:35 PM

it is.  it hurts so much though. 

Quoting Anonymous:

Good luck. It's good that he's leaving tomorrow to work on himself.


mommysangelface
by Emerald Member on Oct. 21, 2013 at 7:35 PM

thank you. 

Quoting SkellyBird:

That sucks dude, sorry you're going through it :(


camo.roo
by Silver Member on Oct. 21, 2013 at 7:35 PM
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I hope he gets the help he really needs. Try to stay strong. :(
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