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So it is happening UPDATE 10/22/2013

I have posted in here about issues with my DH. 

Well he is leaving tomorrow and we dont know how long for. 

I cant do this anymore right now. 

I lost a GOOD job because of having to call off cuz he decided to check himself into the hospital. 

I have a new job now where i only work when the kids are in school. Once in awhile they might need me on a Sunday but ds6's den mother from cubscouts said she would watch both boys on that day. 


I cant do this. By the goddess i do love him but i cannot help him anymore. I cannot deal with the fighting and the flip flop. I cant handle in and out of the hospital. 

I told him and his grandmother agrees, for different reasons i am sure, that he needs to work on himself and he cannot do that while here. 


So he is leaving tomorrow. 



10/22/2013  UPDATE!

So dh left for a doctor's appt at 10am central time. He is currently waiting for the bus to show up at 2:50pm to take him to his grandmothers. 

He was telling me that he doesnt think this is a good idea. He feels like he is walking out on his family. I explained to him that he is not walking out. He will still be in contact with all 3 of us. I told him the door is not closing and that he can come back when he has his head clear. 

He told me that he has a feeling he is going to be down there and things are gonna be easier and he is not gonna wanna come back. 

I told him that, that is HIS choice but there is not going to be back and forth. 

He agreed

Update again 10/22/2013

Well DH is on the bus heading towards Milwakee, Wisconsin. 


UPDATE 10/23/2013

DH called him this morning and told me that he was at the hospital in Kentucky. He apparently had an anxiety attack. They released him a little bit late and he missed the bus. So they rerouted him and his grandmother is going to meet him in Atlanta Georgia at 11:30pm eastern time. and then drive back home to SC. 


UPDATE 10/24/2013

Well DH made it to Atlanta, Georgia. His grandmother picked him up and he is getting some much needed rest!

Grandpa, 
I love you. 
You are not of this earth no more
But i know your spirit is. 
You are with all of us forever more. 
No more tears shall fall from your eyes
No more pain you will ever feel. 
You are in my heart always and forever more. 
I love you more than words can express
 

Sept. 21, 1938 - Oct. 24, 2012

by on Oct. 21, 2013 at 7:16 PM
Replies (41-50):
Anonymous
by Anonymous 5 on Oct. 21, 2013 at 8:13 PM

Good luck to you.  

mommysangelface
by Emerald Member on Oct. 21, 2013 at 8:14 PM

him not doing ANYTHING around the house. 

Promising to do stuff to help me and then not

Way he deals with the kids

Money

Doctors

Quoting Anonymous:

What do you fight about?


mommysangelface
by Emerald Member on Oct. 21, 2013 at 8:14 PM

ty

Quoting Anonymous:

Good luck to you.  


First_One_8_18
by Gold Member on Oct. 21, 2013 at 8:15 PM

Good luck! It will be hard at first, but after a while you realize how MUCH of a blessing it is!

Anonymous
by Anonymous 5 on Oct. 21, 2013 at 8:15 PM


As hard as it will be, he needs more help than you can give.  You can't work, take care of kids, a home and him.

Quoting mommysangelface:

ty

Quoting Anonymous:

Good luck to you.  




mommysangelface
by Emerald Member on Oct. 21, 2013 at 8:16 PM

thank you

honestly i feel it will be easier with him gone 

Quoting First_One_8_18:

Good luck! It will be hard at first, but after a while you realize how MUCH of a blessing it is!


mommysangelface
by Emerald Member on Oct. 21, 2013 at 8:17 PM

i keep telling him that but he wont listen to me. 

Quoting Anonymous:


As hard as it will be, he needs more help than you can give.  You can't work, take care of kids, a home and him.

Quoting mommysangelface:

ty

Quoting Anonymous:

Good luck to you.  





angie729
by Ruby Member on Oct. 21, 2013 at 8:17 PM

Hugs...good luck

mommysangelface
by Emerald Member on Oct. 21, 2013 at 8:18 PM

thanks hun!

Quoting angie729:

Hugs...good luck


Anonymous
by Anonymous 4 on Oct. 21, 2013 at 8:32 PM

He won't listen? doesn't sound like he wants to leave. Is that right?

Quoting mommysangelface:

i keep telling him that but he wont listen to me. 

Quoting Anonymous:


As hard as it will be, he needs more help than you can give.  You can't work, take care of kids, a home and him.

Quoting mommysangelface:

ty

Quoting Anonymous:

Good luck to you.  






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