I don't think I'd get an abortion, but I'd like the right to choose.
Quoting Anonymous:Yes. I was raped by two men.
I haven't been in that situation, but I sure dont think I have the right to decide for anyone else either. I would hope that it would be a last resort and not a reflex reaction, its a life altering choice and you cant take it back.
I would get one if I was raped, if my life was in danger, or if there was something wrong with the fetus and it was not compatible with life, or would have a bad quality of life.
Why the hell were you sleeping with a guy who wouldn't support you and the baby if you got pregnant, particularly when u already had kids. Talk about irresponsible. This is why women need to raise their standards and leave the one nighters with scum to the hookers like it used to be. You're a WOMAN, not a whore.
Quoting Anonymous:I NEVER thought I could either. But I got pregnant while I was asleep. No joke, it happened and I nearly killed him then and there. But I already had two kids, and I never blinked twice when I got pregnant before. But this time I broke down crying, sunk into an immediate and deep depression and thought about adoption. Then I realized that with working and two young babies that there was no way I could go through a pregnancy, even if I managed to keep my job through the pregnancy (I have super high risk pregnancies) it would drain me to the point of complete exhaustion.
As soon as I told him I suspected that he did it on purpose.
So I did something I never considered an option before that moment. I made what I thought was the best choice at the time for myself and my children. And I have regretted it ever since, I still refuse to try to have more children because I feel so guilty.
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