My SD12 who I am CSM of was looking as if she needed to talk today. She was all in my business, drawing with a stick outside- the tell tale signs of when she needs to get something off of her chest.
I told her to come on and have a seat on my lap. How is school, do you have a crush, are your friendships intact etc...Everything was fine. SHe recently got her ipod taken away for bad behavior so I asked/told her- "I know you and you're mommy really only comminicate with text- are you missing that because your ipod was taken away? Because you can and should use MY phone to say hi to her, talk to her." She said "no, my mom hardly texts me anyways, I would feel weird calling her, we don't talk on the phone."
I told her ok but she's welcome too if she wants.
She starts tearing up. I ask her what's wrong. She says "I'm not supposed to tell you." I told her there is NOTHING that you can't tell me, no one in our family should have anything to hide." So she tells me that while visiting my MIL her mom called and told her that she has a warant for her arrest, (not her fault of course .__.) and just wanted to let her know but not to tell DH and I because we would stop letting her visit or something."
SD has been holding this inside for months. Is this too heavy of stuff to be telling her child?
Her rights are terminated, I think she just wants pity from SD.
Am I wrong for being upset that she unloaded this shit onto my SD??