No matter what I do my 4 yr dd wants nothing to do with me. just daddy daddy daddy! she tells me all the time I'm mean and she don't love me tonight before bed she broke my heart even more by saying she can't wait till her real mommy comes for her. I don't know where she is getting this! and I ain't mean! I may raise my voice every once in a while but its not like I don't give her 10 or more warnings before hand! and since daddy works 12 hour night shifts and she is in school during the day its hard for them to see each other! I just had to vent and get off my chest!