Quoting Rust.n.Gears:Our sondied and he took to drinking. It was a quick quiet divorce.
We are not divorced yet but I guess the straw was finding out yet again he was doing drugs.He would do good for a year or two and then screw up again.This last time was it for me.He only got as many chances as he did because we have been together for 25 years.I am so much happier without him around.
He's the one that asked for a divorce, it was because he had fallen in love with a 17 year old, who was pregnant with her 2nd child- 2 baby daddies at 17 says a lot huh? He ended up getting dumped by her and found a 19 year old that thought he was god. They are still together 2 years later and have a daughter and live in the house that was meant for me, him and our 3 little boys. Court took over a year to end. We had a custody battle and had to wait even longer because he went and told his lawyer that i was pregnant, and in my state if you're married you have to wait until dna is established in order to proceed with a divorce. He got the house and our only car. While I had to move in with my parents for 9 months. Finally after 2 years apart, almost to the exact date we are divorced.
No mediation is the way to go... Rather than war you compromise.
Quoting Anonymous:Did any of you have to use legal aid or a pro-bono lawyer?
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