my last straw was he got fucked up on pills ( he had been hiding it from me ) and started accusing me of cheating on him with every single one of his friends. we were in the garage and he locked the house door ( we were both outside) so I couldnt get in the house and our dd who was almost 2 was inside sleeping. when I had to pick up something to break into my house that was It . I told him to get out. he didnt show up to our divorce so court went great lol. its been 5 years and he joined the military got sober and has become a half decent father. and we get along great now and are both happily remarried.
Him losing his job and saying he was glad.
Court was too long, complicated and drawn out to describe and I'd sooner not recall the whole ordeal.
But if you need advice, I would say give full disclosure and don't expect him to play nice.
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