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Leaving my husband...

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How do u tell your husband that you want to separate for a while so you can see if you want to be with your daughters father without him knowing the real reason you want to separate? 

Posted by Anonymous on Oct. 24, 2013 at 1:20 AM
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Anonymous
by Anonymous 3 on Oct. 24, 2013 at 1:25 AM
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You Either tell the truth or divorce him now. Separating to see if you want to be with another man is pretty low. Id divorce my husband in a second if he got together (even for a one night stand) with his son's mother- separated or not. Your current dh deserves to know the truth and decide for himself. Honestly, he deserves better than you. Do him a favor and just file for divorce.

cleigh717
by on Oct. 24, 2013 at 1:28 AM
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This is the only solution if u dont want him to know. R u looking for permission? Get a divorce and then get with your ex if u want to. Dont start a new relationship before the other one has ended.


Quoting over40bride:

Lie


daughteroftruth
by on Oct. 24, 2013 at 1:29 AM

 Just tell him. Be honest.

Are you wanting to try and work things out with your dd's father for your dd's benefit, or because you still having feelings for him?

Amybelle
by on Oct. 24, 2013 at 1:29 AM

like he's not going to figure it out??? People LOVE to share bad news...he'll know about it before you get out the door on your first "date"

LadyVoldemort
by on Oct. 24, 2013 at 1:29 AM
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adorkablemommie
by on Oct. 24, 2013 at 1:30 AM

You can always lie however i'm sure he'll figure it out. 

Anonymous
by Anonymous 5 on Oct. 24, 2013 at 1:32 AM

You're married and think you want to be with your daughter's father?  Kind of something you should have figured out before you married.

Why are you just now considering this?

bellawomen
by Summer on Oct. 24, 2013 at 1:35 AM
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How about you just not be a coward?

Let him know you are confused and instead of cheating need time to sort out your feelings.

Don't expect him to wait for you - especially if you lie.

Anonymous
by Anonymous - Original Poster on Oct. 24, 2013 at 7:17 AM


I can't say it's for my daughters benefit because I have children with my husband to worry about too

Quoting daughteroftruth:

 Just tell him. Be honest.

Are you wanting to try and work things out with your dd's father for your dd's benefit, or because you still having feelings for him?



Anonymous
by Anonymous 6 on Oct. 24, 2013 at 7:20 AM

Why didn't things work out between you and your daughters father? Were you married to him?

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