When I first came here the 1st grader was terrified of people, the 4th grader was still wetting the bed/pooping his pants, and the 6th grader was fairly.... emotionally unstable? Right after I moved in I started taking interest in the 4th grader and he stopped pooping/peeing on himself (I thought he was doing it for attention), the 1st grader LOVES to socialize with people and is very sweet and friendly. The 6th grader is hilarious!
They have an older sister and she is, for lack of a better word, a bitch. I think she is the reason that the kids were this way (I have known the parents my whole life, they are kind, loving people).
When I first moved in the older sister banned me from seeing the children except when I needed to take care of them. I wasnt allowed to play football, video games, or anything like that with them. Because of her we were barely allowed to speak!
She screams at the childen for EVERYTHING! They arent allowed to be inside when the parents are home (she locks everyone out), she screams at them for playing soccor (or any sport), laying on the ground, getting their clothes dirty, exploring, building club houses, riding their bikes, laughing, playing, they have to stay in front of the house where she can watch them out of the window. We are talking some petty shit.
Although I love the children to death I think I want to quit. Big sister is a dictator and the parents allow her to walk all over everyone because they have said something to her multiple times and she still feels the need to boss everyone around. She.even tries to tell me what to do. She is a bully who has nothing else to do with her time (she doesnt work, doesnt have any friends, and is home 99% of the time. She is 23 years old).
I honestly wish I wasnt fed up with her.