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DH is a P*****

Posted by Anonymous   + Show Post

Okay the title is mean. I only put it to get your attention. But it is kind of true.


So, I am the girl who is torn between her husband and her daughter's father. And I've been texting and calling my daughter's father not about my daughter.

It may seem like I am a troll because of the way I word things or my e-tone but I am not. This is what I am really going through.

Let me just explain something so you can better understand.

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My husband and I have been together since our first year of highschool on and off. I knew him even before I knew my daughter's father. But he has always been the back up plan and he accepts that from me. I left him for so many men and whenever it didn't work out, I would go back to him. Time and time again. Over and over. I fell in love with him for loving me no matter what crap I pulled.

But I look down at him for not having a back bone. I look down at him for accepting my bullshit. After all the times he took me back, it is extremely hard for me to take him seriously. He is such a pushover but I LOVE him for loving me and that is the only reason. I feel like I made the biggest mistake marrying him becuase now I can't easily leave him. I thought he was the one which is why I married him until I realized I ONLY loved him because he loved me unconditonally. But he has no self esteem.

My daughters father however, I lost my virginty to him. I love him because of the way he makes me feel. I love him because he accepts me for who I am. He never forces me into doing anything I don't want to do unlike me husband who is trying to mold me into this housewife. I love him because he has a great sense of humor. I love him because he is a great father. I love him because the sex was SO good. I can go on and on but the point is. I love him for more than JUST loving me.

I married my husband as a last resort almost. I married him because it was easy. I married him  because I setteld. And now I regret it.

I don't want to leave him because I know it will crush him. That and he has threatened to try his hardest to make sure I lose everything, including my kids if we seperated. I feel stuck. I am not happy. I don't know what to do.




Posted by Anonymous on Oct. 24, 2013 at 2:33 PM
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Anonymous
by Anonymous 21 on Oct. 24, 2013 at 8:44 PM
Derp! I never said he was! There is our dh whom you treat like shit and your baby daddy. Where is your dd when you leave your husband to cheat then come back? Is she with you seeing all of this or do you leave her with your husband?

Quoting Anonymous:

What are yuo talking about? My daughter is not my husbands child.



Quoting Anonymous:

I just cannot believe how you can treat someone like dirt then have the balls to bitch about it?? You married him out of convenience then bitch about what he is lacking?
I CERTAINLY wouldn't respect someone that whores around and comes and goes. The sex would suck because you leave him to f*%k other men. You used him to take care of you and your dd because the "man" you claim to love didn't man up. You married him as a "last resort" so your baby daddy certainly didn't offer to marry you are take care of you or there wouldn't have been any reason to settle.
You are a selfish, self centered, awful person. Where was your kid when you were leaving to screw other men? Then coming back? Maybe she WOULD be better off with someone who is responsible and stable, you certainly aren't!! The fact that you leave to get some then come back means that no other man is knockng at your door for anything more than sex, they aren't willing to marry you and take care of your kid. 
You should leave him so he can find a woman worthy of him. You will never have a decent relationship unless you can put your needs and wants at the same level of your spouse. It would be wise to work on being a good mother them you can possibly find a man instead of mulitple men because you are chronically unhappy with whatever you have.  

Quoting Anonymous:

Okay the title is mean. I only put it to get your attention. But it is kind of true.


So, I am the girl who is torn between her husband and her daughter's father. And I've been texting and calling my daughter's father not about my daughter.

It may seem like I am a troll because of the way I word things or my e-tone but I am not. This is what I am really going through.

Let me just explain something so you can better understand.

***

My husband and I have been together since our first year of highschool on and off. I knew him even before I knew my daughter's father. But he has always been the back up plan and he accepts that from me. I left him for so many men and whenever it didn't work out, I would go back to him. Time and time again. Over and over. I fell in love with him for loving me no matter what crap I pulled.

But I look down at him for not having a back bone. I look down at him for accepting my bullshit. After all the times he took me back, it is extremely hard for me to take him seriously. He is such a pushover but I LOVE him for loving me and that is the only reason. I feel like I made the biggest mistake marrying him becuase now I can't easily leave him. I thought he was the one which is why I married him until I realized I ONLY loved him because he loved me unconditonally. But he has no self esteem.

My daughters father however, I lost my virginty to him. I love him because of the way he makes me feel. I love him because he accepts me for who I am. He never forces me into doing anything I don't want to do unlike me husband who is trying to mold me into this housewife. I love him because he has a great sense of humor. I love him because he is a great father. I love him because the sex was SO good. I can go on and on but the point is. I love him for more than JUST loving me.

I married my husband as a last resort almost. I married him because it was easy. I married him  because I setteld. And now I regret it.

I don't want to leave him because I know it will crush him. That and he has threatened to try his hardest to make sure I lose everything, including my kids if we seperated. I feel stuck. I am not happy. I don't know what to do.








Anonymous
by Anonymous 25 on Oct. 24, 2013 at 8:46 PM

You don't love him....He doesn't really love you....What could go wrong?

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