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I ran in to the other woman at the store today...

Anonymous
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My dh had an emotional affair back in June, I thought that I had gotten over it... Well today while I was at the store I ran in to her. It just opened up that scar. I became mad all over again. I didn't say anything to her, but she smiled at me and I instantly wanted to use her head to beat dh's face in. 

As soon as I got in the car I started crying I cried the whole way home. Now I'm just sad. I can't stop thinking about it. How do I let go of all of this and just be happy again?


Posted by Anonymous on Oct. 25, 2013 at 4:19 PM
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justpeachy71904
by peachy on Oct. 25, 2013 at 4:20 PM
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Therapy

That's all you cab do. Obviously.ypu still need therapy
Anonymous
by Anonymous on Oct. 25, 2013 at 4:21 PM
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Have your own affair.
Anonymous
by Anonymous - Original Poster on Oct. 25, 2013 at 4:21 PM

I can't afford it, we have no insurance. I want to go really badly though.

Quoting justpeachy71904:

Therapy

That's all you cab do. Obviously.ypu still need therapy


Anonymous
by Anonymous - Original Poster on Oct. 25, 2013 at 4:22 PM
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I wont lie I have thought about it, but I just don't think I could bring myself to do something so evil. It hurts really bad.

Quoting Anonymous:

Have your own affair.


justpeachy71904
by peachy on Oct. 25, 2013 at 4:23 PM
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Churches offer counseling.

Don't ever stop looking for help. It is there.


Quoting Anonymous:

I can't afford it, we have no insurance. I want to go really badly though.

Quoting justpeachy71904:

Therapy



That's all you cab do. Obviously.ypu still need therapy


Anonymous
by Anonymous on Oct. 25, 2013 at 4:23 PM
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Oh ffs


Quoting Anonymous:

Have your own affair.

GatorsWife4Life
by Christina on Oct. 25, 2013 at 4:23 PM

I used to be that other woman. I am so sorry you had to go through that. At least it is over though, so think about that. You have him and she doesn't so obviously he wants to make a life with you. Emotional affairs are so much harder to get over than a sexual affair. I agree with the above, therapy. And if you can't afford it maybe you can do it through a church or something. Good luck momma!!

Anonymous
by Anonymous - Original Poster on Oct. 25, 2013 at 4:23 PM

I never even gave that a thought. Thank you. I will look in to it.

Quoting justpeachy71904:

Churches offer counseling.

Don't ever stop looking for help. It is there.


Quoting Anonymous:

I can't afford it, we have no insurance. I want to go really badly though.

Quoting justpeachy71904:

Therapy



That's all you cab do. Obviously.ypu still need therapy



Anonymous
by Anonymous on Oct. 25, 2013 at 4:23 PM

Do you have a friend you can confide in? Someone who wouldn't mind listening to all of your problems?

laineysmum
by Silver Member on Oct. 25, 2013 at 4:23 PM
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Why would she smile at you instead of ducking her head and shuffling away? What a bitch. 

You just have to work through and process your emotions. It was a big betrayal and it will take some time to get over. I'm sorry I don't have a better answer than that. I know from experience. :(

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