It's a complete disaster over there. It stresses her out and it stresses her oldest grand daughter out.
I babysit her the girls before and after school and since I'm a stay at home mom I was thinking I could go over there a few hours a week and start cleaning and organizing everything.
She works a lot, is older, and has to deal with 2 grieving children as well as another daughter who is irresponsible. I want to help her but I don't want to offend her by implying that her house is a wreck.