My dh's nephew's girlfriend called last night and asked us to go to a bar crawl with them. Seriously? No. Not only do we have 3 kids at home, but also your boyfriend is psychotic. This is the nephew a few of you may remember me saying my dh hasn't talked to in almost a year then he comes over one morning, gets drunk, and kicks my cat. He still talks to her girlfriend because we love their children and want them in our lives, but...I can't handle their brand of crazy anymore. I think I'm seriously going to have to tell dh that he can talk to her if he wants but nieces or no nieces I just can't take the back and forth of her and her boyfriend. She calls us ALL THE TIME telling us he got physical with her, then the next week it's all good. She was down here earlier in the week saying she was going to tell him he had to leave because of some crazy stuff he pulled, I get on facebook this morning and there are all these pictures of the two of them kissing and cuddling at the bar crawl. I don't know how many times I've said to her "think of what all the fighting and tension between the two of you is doing to the girls" and she says she knows but she does nothing about it. Ugh. Ok, vent over.