Suppose a young, vibrant you moves to a new town with no family/friends around. You meet a nice man with a very small family and few wonderful married man friends. You and this guy eventually fall in love and get married within 2 years of knowing each other. You have a great marriage and life together. Suppose one day you find out that when you met, your DH was engaged to another woman with a wedding just a few months away and DH didn't tell you, nor his family and friends. (You can make up how you found out)
How would you react?