It always blows my mind to see "mothers" who don't raise their kids! you are the mother! why do you not have custody of your child?!!?!? why is someone else raising your kid you see a couple times a month or every other weekend?..
Children should be with their mothers. unless drug addict or abusive.
*wow this blew up! I guess a better statement would have been.. If you are not going to be a great mother don't have them! if you cannot love,nuture,provide and be there for oyur child you are very pathetic and should not of had them!.. yes fathers are just as good if not better but if the mother is what i just listed above, the child should be with her.. careers and money issues is something you should of thought about prior. every "excuse" anyone has mentioned could of been prevented most are just lazy excuses IMO. they are VERY few legit reasons to not have your child. and I mean few. .