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I had BRIDAL catalogs mailed to my sister to remind her that NOBODY wants to MARRY a self-centered B****!!

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  • My younger sister just turned 30 with no prospects on the horizon and last year she became an instant single mom after TTC behind her then BF's back.  She's been on a rampage to try to cut me down and attempt to make me look bad to extended family and friends.  I've done everything to help her from free babysitting, to doing all of her paperwork for benefits/CS, even cleaning her house. 

  • Still, she throws my weight in my face and purposefully posts unflattering pics of me on FB (immediately followed up by pics of her wearing next to nothing), blows my marital problems out of proportion/gossips about me and treats me like slave when I'm around.  If I'm not catering to her and her baby's every need (regardless of what my three little ones needs are) in a timely manner, she calls me socially retarded to my face and tells me that this is why I have no friends (most of my friends are male.  I guess that makes me a loser?).  She not only lives at home for next for nothing, but my mom is her free 24/7 nanny for work and partying.

  • She treats men the same way and that's why no one has ever even come close to marrying her and probably never will unless she changes her ways.  It drives her nuts that I have a successful marriage and that nearly all of my exes proposed to me as well.  She hates any reminder of weddings or marriage.  Men won't even discuss marriage with her because she makes their life a living hell.  After a blowup last week, I've told her that from here on out, I will only be dealing with her at family functions and holidays.  Is my little catalog request immature?  Yes, but I'm still deeply hurt by the way she treats me and it's not the first time.  Making an appt. to go back to therapy now.  

ETA: I put her name and mailing address.  She already gets random catalogs that don't match up to her interests.  She will not know that it was me that ordered them.

Posted by Anonymous on Oct. 30, 2013 at 4:02 PM
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Anonymous
by Anonymous 9 on Oct. 30, 2013 at 4:11 PM

 It is a rather petty prank, but harmless........and I don't blame you for being passive aggressive and wanting to get her back!!  But now it's time to move on from this and limit your contact with her!  She sounds toxic and you don't need people like that in your life........doesn't matter that they are family!!  Trust me I know.  My sister has alot of issues too and can be a real bitch.  It's best to keep people like that at arm's length for your own emotional well-being. 

Anonymous
by Anonymous 10 on Oct. 30, 2013 at 4:11 PM
If that bit of revenge made you feel better, well good for you. I would have created a profile for her on a hookup site or dating site with the headline "desperately seeking husband" along with those pics of her barely clothed. But I am a bitch like that.
scarletmeshell
by Platinum Member on Oct. 30, 2013 at 4:12 PM
While funny I really doubt the arrival of a bridal magazine will phase her at all.
Bethsunshine
by Emerald Member on Oct. 30, 2013 at 4:13 PM
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While I think what you did was funny, sometimes it's just not worth it to stoop to their level. I understand though. I have an emotionally abusive brother. Thankfully, I live almost 600 miles away from him and only have to tolerate his presence once or twice a year for the sake of my parents.

Anonymous
by Anonymous 11 on Oct. 30, 2013 at 4:14 PM

Don't stoop to her level! It just makes you look like her.  As long as you have a good heart and you are content with who you are, do not let her get to you. Stop helping her out, and stop letting her step all over you.  I would delete her from FB and be done with it. Why submit your self to her cruel ways. You can do something about the pictures, Delete her. 

Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster on Oct. 30, 2013 at 4:14 PM

Oh that's good.  I'm not that ballsy though. 


Quoting Anonymous:

If that bit of revenge made you feel better, well good for you. I would have created a profile for her on a hookup site or dating site with the headline "desperately seeking husband" along with those pics of her barely clothed. But I am a bitch like that.



Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster on Oct. 30, 2013 at 4:16 PM

It will.  She can't stand any reminder of weddings or marriage...anything that reminds her of her failed plan.


Quoting scarletmeshell:

While funny I really doubt the arrival of a bridal magazine will phase her at all.



Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster on Oct. 30, 2013 at 4:17 PM

She is deleted and blocked.


Quoting Anonymous:

Don't stoop to her level! It just makes you look like her.  As long as you have a good heart and you are content with who you are, do not let her get to you. Stop helping her out, and stop letting her step all over you.  I would delete her from FB and be done with it. Why submit your self to her cruel ways. You can do something about the pictures, Delete her. 



Anonymous
by Anonymous 12 on Oct. 30, 2013 at 4:18 PM

Sounds like you 2 either need counseling or need to live thousands of miles away from each other. surprise mini

Tay06
by Silver Member on Oct. 30, 2013 at 4:19 PM

Don't feed her craziness

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