And I don't know what to do about it. She is about to turn 4 and is 49 lbs. her dad and I are both obese too and are working on it. She eats way better than I did as a kid and I wasn't fat. She eats fruits and veggies everyday. No koolaid or soda. She is very sedentary by nature and even if I run with her se just wants to sit and play. Outside she just sits and looks for bugs or plays in the dirt. She wants to try gymnastics but I have no way to get her there. Her dr didn't really help, just said it was a problem. I think she thought I was lying because I am fat too. I have a problem and I know it but I binge after my children are in bed. Any advice?