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How I got rid of a wannabe HOMEWRECKER - Step-by-Step

Anonymous
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This was a good six years ago when we were engaged.  DH had just changed jobs and moved across town to live with me.  This enthusiastic 23yo coworker from his previous job kept calling and emailing him.  I never found any evidence that something happened between them, but judging by her emails, she was way too into him and really probing about the how things were going in our relationship.  I needed to get rid of her just to be on the safe side.  I did the following:

*Changed her # by one digit in the contacts in his phone.  Made sure it rang to a disconnected #.

*Logged into DH's Verizon account and blocked her number from being able to call or text him.

*Created a Gmail address identical to hers, but off by one letter (ex. tori.willson@gmail VS  tori.wilson@gmail)

*Changed her email address in DH's Hotmail contacts to above mentioned address.  This way when he created an email to her, she would never get it.  But, because it's a real address, he would not recieve a bounce-back/mailer daemon message.

*Blocked her Gmail address in DH's Hotmail account so that any future emails from her would get automatically deleted and he would never see them.


Call me an overprotective bitch if you like, but it worked.  He just figured she lost interest in being "friends".  It would be harder these days with all the social networking, but there is no need there he hasn't ever given me another reason to worry.  He is so shy and works with all men now.

Posted by Anonymous on Nov. 2, 2013 at 1:50 AM
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Anonymous
by Anonymous 2 on Nov. 2, 2013 at 1:51 AM
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That's just too much.
KristenFowles
by Ruby Member on Nov. 2, 2013 at 1:52 AM
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 I don't think the girl is the problem.... 

Clearly, it's him.

Anonymous
by Anonymous 3 on Nov. 2, 2013 at 1:52 AM

ok

3MusketeerMama
by EmmaRye Pie on Nov. 2, 2013 at 1:53 AM
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OR, you can work on your marriage so he won't be tempted to cheat...

Anonymous
by Anonymous 4 on Nov. 2, 2013 at 1:53 AM
You have trust issues
Anonymous
by Anonymous 5 on Nov. 2, 2013 at 1:54 AM
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It takes two to tango.
thetrollcat
by Meow on Nov. 2, 2013 at 1:54 AM
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well I dunno about you but if I cannot trust a man then he isnt worth my time

got2monsters
by Ruby Member on Nov. 2, 2013 at 1:54 AM
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If I have to work that hard to keep a man to myself...I don't want his ass.
DusterMommy
by Silver Member on Nov. 2, 2013 at 1:54 AM
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Wow. Lol.
OrangeBalloon
by Platinum Member on Nov. 2, 2013 at 1:55 AM

What exactly was she saying that lead you too think that she was interested in him? 

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