He said, "I can't believe you wouldn't have told me this on Friday! Of course it's shocking, and not what we planned but they are in there. They are my babies and my responsibility. Not much we can do about it except budget more and buy two of everything."
I can't believe I freaked out over nothing, I feel like an idiot:/.
DH and I have waited for 6 years to have another baby. We miscarried a few months ago and decided to try again. I went to the doctor yesterday and found out I am 13 weeks along with twins:). I am ecstatic about this! My DH was unable to come to the appointment because of work.
My problem is I KNOW DH will not want me to carry these babies because he only wants one more. I'm thinking of not telling him it's twins until I'm a bit further along and they start "looking" like babies in the sonogram. Is this wrong? I just think he will be more excited if we find out one was hiding.
What should I do? Just be up front or wait? Our finances aren't an issue DH just doesn't want a lot of kids.