His family is mad I won't go to the wake or funeral
We have 4 kids ranging from 14 to almost 3. I wasn't going to have a wake and didn't care if there was a funeral. His family wanted them so I said fine then you can plan and pay for them.
I said I wouldn't be there. I don't need closure, to say goodbye or to listen to anyone's fake sympathies. They said how will it look if you're not there. I said ok I'll go but I will tell everyone there what a rotten person he was.
Yes, I did stay with him through all of his bullshit. I am done though. I am moving out of here before Christmas. I will move across the country and start a new life with my kids.