Its like raising your children. If you clean their rooms, dress them, do their homework and so on and never teach them they won't learn how to be self sufficient .. how to live! They won't have the confidence either.
They need a boost and TOOLS. How about if they can't find a job have them volunteer until they do find work! They are required this to keep their benefits. It will help them gain confidence, skills and experience and show their children a good example!
Welfare to work...what happened to that? 1 in 7 people are on FS. A change is needed. This isn't working.